SYSTEMIC & TRAUMA-INFORMED COUPLES THERAPY
01 · COUPLES
When everything between you
“works".
Except the ease of being together.
Today, a partnership is expected to be many things at once: intimate, a friendship, physically close, a space for parenting, supportive of two careers, and often professionally intertwined as well.
Holding all of this at once is demanding and has changed the conditions in which relationships unfold.
02 · WHAT FOR
Your relationship
is too valuable
to simply
let it run in
the background.
I see systemic, trauma informed couples therapy as an intentionally chosen space for your relationship. Even when much of your life looks like it’s working from the outside and you may already have tried many things.
You don’t need to have reached a particular point of crisis. It’s enough to sense: The way we experience each other isn’t how we want things to stay.
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03 · DISTANCE WITHOUT DRAMA
Maybe you find yourselves arguing about the same things again and again. Conversations turn, one of you shuts down, the other gets louder. Hurts linger between you longer than either of you would like.
Maybe things between you have grown much quieter. Your life runs smoothly, and you work really well as a team. You just find yourselves meeting each other as a couple less and less often.
Some couples come because a crisis can no longer be ignored. Others because they sense that closeness is slipping away almost unnoticed.
And some already understand a great deal about themselves, their history, and the patterns between them. Yet when it matters most, they find themselves caught in the same loop again and again.
You’ve known the problem for a long time. But you can no longer reach each other within it.
04 · WHAT HOLDS YOU BACK
Seeking support for your relationship can touch on many of the beliefs we hold about how relationships are supposed to work.
· We should be able to work this out on our own · Maybe I’m just too sensitive · We have everything we wanted, don’t we · What if I’m the only one who has a problem with it · Can I talk about our relationship if my partner isn’t there · Maybe this is normal after so many years · Some things should stay between us · I can’t tell anyone about this · What if it only makes things worse ·
05 · WORKING TOGETHER
In person in Stade.
Online everywhere.
I work systemically and trauma-informed with what unfolds between you: in your conversations, reactions, and recurring patterns.
You can come together or on your own if you want to explore your relationship for yourself first.
60 min · €165
75 min · €215
75 Min · €245
120 Min · €325
On request
For two or more people, more intensive formats ranging from half a day to a full weekend are also available.
05 · BEGINNING
Your first step:
Let’s create a
sense of direction together.
In the Starting Point Conversation, we’ll look at what brings you here and what kind of setting might feel right for you.
I work bilingually in German and English, online and in my space in Stade. Weekends, too.
ZUKUNFTSMOMENT is less than an hour’s drive from Hamburg’s Elbe suburbs (Blankenese, Othmarschen, Nienstedten, Rissen) and western Hamburg (Altona, Bahrenfeld, Eidelstedt).
From southern Hamburg, the Harburg district, Lüneburg, and Bremen, the drive takes about 75 to 90 minutes.
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