Systemic and trauma-informed therapy and counseling – quiet, clear, and grounded in strength
Kornelia Varga-Passarge
Systemic and trauma-informed support with integrity – because leadership starts by leading yourself
I didn’t just advise leaders — I lived leadership.
For many years, in leading management consultancies.
Verantwortlich für Menschen, für Veränderung, für Entscheidungen mit Tragweite. Für Prozesse, die auf dem Papier schlüssig waren – aber in der Realität oft etwas anderes brauchten: Beziehung. Vertrauen. Raum. Und manchmal auch den Blick auf alte Spuren, die das Heute still mitprägen.
When I turned 40, a different journey began. One that had less to do with concepts — and more to do with connection. Especially connection with myself.
I left the professional world I had known —
and then came the fog: letting go, doubt, insight, curiosity, exploration, learning, allowing, undoing...
no plan. At 44, I repositioned myself — professionally, personally, internally.
Ich bin hochsensibel, analytisch, kreativ, strukturiert – und lebe heute mit meinem Mann und drei Hunden auf dem Land. In einem Leben, das leiser und chaotischer ist – aber echter.
Structure meets depth — thinking in resonance
Erfahrung aus der Wirtschaft – verbunden mit einer Haltung, die Resonanz wichtiger nimmt als Rezepte.
I’ve learned to listen where there are no words.
To accompany where clarity is still taking shape.
And to trust that transformation can’t be planned — but it can be invited.
I work revolutionärleiser. Why?
Because change often begins in silence. And it needs space — not solutions.
Revolutionärleiser — my stance, not a method
Revolutionärleiser means having the courage to go slow. Not needing to push yourself forward. Feeling held in the fog — because something is being protected there, something not yet ready to be seen.
It’s a quiet in spite of: In spite of pain. In spite of doubt. In spite of uncertainty — staying with it. Sensing, rather than pushing away. Saying yes to what has no name yet — but is already at work.
Revolutionärleiser ist auch das:
An invitation to listen to yourself — before you have to speak. A way of showing up — without needing to explain. A space where self-agency can grow — without needing proof.
“Not working on ourselves means denying others the chance to meet a better version of us — and that would be a pity.”
– Matthias Varga von Kibéd
Experience & Essence – systemic, hypnosystemic, different by design
Degree in Economics (Diplom-Ökonomin), with 16 years of leadership and change experience in top-tier consultancies and international contexts
Since 01/2025: Founder of Zukunftsmoment
Systemische, traumasensible und bindungsorientierte Therapie und Beratung für High Functioning Couples, Unternehmerfamilien und erwachsene Familien
01/2021 selbständig als Systemische Beraterin, Mediatorin und Business Coach
Seit 2005 kontinuierliche, z. T. mehrjährige Weiterbildungen in systemischer Arbeit, u.a. Coach Professional (E.S.B.A.), Systemische Beratung (SySt® Institut), Hypnosystemische Therapie und Beratung (Gunther Schmidt), Emotionally Focused Therapy nach Sue Johnson (Externship)
Systemic and trauma-informed work – personal. Quiet. Present.
I look forward to meeting you — and to finding out together how I might support you. Let’s explore, in a Starting Point session, what perspectives might (re)open for you
I look forward to hearing from you — the first step is often already a lot. And it can simply begin with a “hello.”
And maybe you’ve come here because something is ready to move. Because you, as a couple are longing for a new kind of closeness, because in your family, roles and expectations are pulling — and you're still longing for connection - or because as an entrepreneurial family, you're looking for a space where relationship can matter again.
Then I invite you to take a closer look at Zukunftsmoment – and what might become possible there
I look forward to hearing from you — the first step is often already a lot. And it can simply begin with a “hello.”
